Hey, kid.

I see you—bright-eyed, full of fire, ready to take over the world. You think you’ve got it all figured out. You’re certain that success is just a few smart moves away. You’re hungry, relentless, and convinced that failure is something that happens to other people. Cute.

Let’s talk.

1. Success is a Moving Target—Stop Trying to “Arrive”

Right now, you believe success is a destination—a big break, a fat bank account, a seat at the table. You think that once you hit a certain milestone, you’ll finally exhale, nod in self-approval, and bask in the glow of “I made it.”

Here’s the truth: there is no finish line. Success is like an ever-moving GPS pin—you reach one point, and suddenly, there’s another level to unlock. If you’re smart (and I know you are), you’ll stop chasing a final destination and start enjoying the ride.

Read: When I Get Where I’m Going (Poem)

2. Failure is Just a Plot Twist, Not the End of the Story

Let’s talk about failure—oh, how you hate even the idea of it. You take it personally, like a slap to the face. You think if you fail, it means you’re not good enough. Wrong.

Failure is just life’s way of checking if you’re serious. It’s a re-route, not a dead end. Some of the best ideas, biggest deals, and most powerful lessons will come from things not going your way. So, when you mess up (and you will), don’t waste time sulking—analyze, adjust, and go again.

3. Your Network is a Cheat Code—Use It

I know you believe hard work alone will get you to the top. And while talent and grit are crucial, here’s the uncomfortable truth: who you know matters just as much as what you know.

The right connections will open doors that skill alone cannot. So, stop being a lone wolf—build relationships, invest in people, and make sure that when your name comes up in a room full of opportunities, it’s followed by, “Yeah, I’d vouch for him.”

Read: Letter to My Unborn (Poem)

4. Money is a Great Servant, But a Terrible Master

At 25, you’re obsessed with making money. I get it. You want the comfort, the freedom, the validation. But let me tell you what 35-year-old you has learned: money is a tool, not the goal. If you chase it blindly, you’ll end up feeling empty even with a full bank account.

The real flex? Making money work for you. Invest wisely, spend intentionally, and never let it define you.

5. Resilience is Your Superpower—Build It Like a Muscle

There will be days when everything crumbles. Days when you wonder if you’re good enough, if it’s worth it, if you should just pack up and go be a fisherman somewhere (nothing wrong with being a fisherman). Those are the moments that separate the dreamers from the doers.

Resilience isn’t just about surviving; it’s about bouncing back stronger. Train yourself to take hits and keep moving—because life? Life is going to test you. Pass the test.

6. Health is Wealth—Don’t Treat It Like an Afterthought

You’re young. You think you can survive on four hours of sleep, junk food, and caffeine. You believe burnout is just part of the grind. Let me save you from future regret: take care of your mind and body.

A sharp brain and a strong body will make you unstoppable. Rest, eat well, move your body, and guard your mental space like a fortress. You can’t win the game if you’re running on fumes.

Read: Find That Spark (Poem)

7. Bet on Yourself—Always

There will be moments when doubt creeps in. When the world tells you that you’re aiming too high, dreaming too big. Ignore them. You are your greatest asset. Invest in yourself, trust your instincts, and remember: no one owes you belief—so believe in yourself first.

My Final Words

So here’s the deal, kid: Dream big, work hard, but don’t be afraid to stumble. Learn, adapt, and keep pushing forward. Success isn’t about never falling—it’s about getting up every single time.

Oh, and one last thing—stop worrying so much. You turn out just fine.

Now, go make me proud.